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First time in London? Here’s how to make your trip as easy and pleasurable as possible

If you’re planning your first trip to London and are feeling perhaps a little intimidated, never fear- your local personal guide is here. I’m the best tour guide in London because I’m local, I know the best places to go, and I usually get naked too.

As a seasoned Londoner and well-organised hedonist, I’m going to give you a brief rundown on how I would go about my first trip, including first places to stay and eat, indispensable apps to download and the piece de resistance, a truly excellent and highly legit London-specific escort directory.

Not left home yet?

Then there’s still time for advance planning, truly the hidden key to maximising a business-with-pleasure trip and minimising stress.

Book your hotel before you leave and pay in advance to make check in feel nicer. London hotels I recommend include 45 Park Lane, Bulgari Hotel, The Connaught, Four Seasons Park Lane, the Mandarin Oriental, The Whiteley, and the suites at The Mandrake and The Ned. I do not recommend using AirBnB. Cost-effective alternatives include The Hoxton, Melia White House and Nobu Shoreditch.

And don’t stop there- while you’re booking your hotel, book your two other basic necessities in advance too: your restaurant(s) and your companion(s).

Hotels generally have more rooms than a nice restaurant has tables. And that companion you have your eye on, well, there is only one of her, so she’s even less likely to have room for you last-minute than a hotel or a restaurant.

Don’t travel for hours to the big smoke just to sit alone in your room eating generic room service before leaving Friday morning without having tasted London. Book your companions and restaurants as far in advance as you can, because they get busy.

The best London directory for connecting with companions and kink providers at the moment is KLE (Kinky London Escorts), which is run exclusively and equitably by the ladies themselves, many of whom attend the regular KLE socials and have genuine rapport with each other outside of dating. Everyone involved with the site knowing each other is protection against fake profiles appearing and this tight-knit community with its diverse members list really does represent the very best of what London has to offer. If you have never dated in London before it is absolutely the safest and best place to begin, hands down. And all of us love to eat, which brings us to…

My personal favourite London restaurants and bars include Alain Ducasse at The Dorchester, Canton Blue at the Peninsula, Core by Clare Smyth, the Fumoir at Claridge’s or The Ritz Rivoli Bar for a perfectly mixed cocktail, Hakkasan, Kioku by Endo at Raffles OWO, The Lecture Room & Library at sketch, Nobu Mayfair, Park Chinois (just for cocktails and dim sum though), The Pem at Conrad St James, Pétrus, and The Ritz Dining Room. Pick one or two and book a lunch or dinner there, you won’t regret it. For something more casual, check out ROKA, Dishoom, Bocca di Lupo, Barrafina, Nessa, Ducksoup or Bocconcino, all very central, and all still pretty much requiring advance booking.

Still not casual enough, or is everywhere you wanted to eat booked up? Summer’s coming so go for a stroll around Borough Market (handy for Shangri-La at The Shard, if you happen to be staying there) or get takeout from Harrods Food Hall and have a breezy picnic in Hyde Park.

Getting around in London

There are three ways to travel in London: walking, black cabs, and the tube. I find Uber in London to be unreliable so I don’t recommend it. Instead I use the Gett app, which works just like Uber except it’s for black cabs. The journeys are faster and more pleasant and the roof has a huge sunroof so you can get a better look at the architecture as you go.

The tube can seem intimidating even for those who are used to using metro systems until you start using the free TfL journey planner, which gives you detailed instructions on how to get from A to B. You don’t need to buy a ticket to use the tube or the buses, you can just tap your credit card on the turnstiles as you go. There are free paper tube maps to study at almost every tube station and staff to point you in the right direction.

Walking around Central London (Zone 1, if you’re looking at a tube map) is very pleasant as long as your companion has flat shoes. The only places to avoid are parks after dark. I love walking in London as my preferred mode of transport when I can. Sure my hair might not look quite as perfect as it would have done in a cab, but it’s a great city with historic architecture, buzzing shops and if you like people-watching, you’re in the right place.

London is an exhilarating city with endless opportunities to explore, indulge, and make rich memories. By planning ahead, you can avoid the stress of last-minute bookings and truly immerse yourself in the best that London has to offer. From luxury hotels and gourmet dining to finding the right companion, taking the time to organize your trip in advance will ensure everything goes smoothly and pleasurably. The Gett black cab app and TfL website make transport a breeze, but don’t forget to explore London on foot if you can- it's one of the best ways to discover the charm and beauty of this vibrant metropolis. So book ahead, relax, and most of all, enjoy your time in one of the world’s most dynamic cities!

Who do you have to become to climb the mountain?

An actual mountain climber started chatting to me about the mountain-climbing analogy I used in my last blog and gave me this interesting insight: “It’s true that climbing the mountain isn’t just about being on the summit. But it isn’t just about the climb, either. It’s about who you have to become in order to do the climb.”

I think he means that it’s not just about the journey, where you have to be courageous and clever and overcome obstacles; you have to become a courageous, clever, problem-solving person, and that’s the real attraction and value of climbing that mountain.

In my last blog I said,

I have always been very highly sexed. After many years, I finally decided to be more open about it and to date the way I had always dreamed of- even though I wasn’t really sure that was possible. I could visualise how it would look. I had obstacles to overcome. I was afraid! Afraid that if I didn’t get married, I would end up regretting it- but all I really wanted to do with my life was have multiple lovers with whom I could share sensual excitement and fulfilment.

I found a way of doing that by confronting my anxieties and becoming a companion. It was a leap! I was surprised and elated to find that there are other people out there who feel the same way I do. My quest keeps unfolding as I meet more and more of them and now I can honestly say that not only was my goal achievable, it actually paled by comparison to how it feels to be doing it in real life. I look back and realise that following a conventional path would have been more risky to my happiness than taking that first leap into the unknown was.

Who did I have to become to climb my mountain?

I had to become Lilly!

A girl who leaps at opportunity, a planner, a trusting and trustworthy person, someone brave enough to seize the day and make the most out of this one short life we have. If I hadn’t become this person, I would still be stuck in my old anxieties and life would still be passing my by as I watched others do what I wanted to do and silently fantasised about it.

I hope that you too are excited about who you become in order to overcome your obstacles and complete your quest. A man of action, someone with guts, someone clever, someone successful, someone in touch with themselves, someone enjoying all that life has to offer, an explorer, a discoverer of new worlds and life experiences?

I genuinely and from the bottom of my heart wish you all this and more! And if, like me, sensual fulfilment is part of your personal quest, perhaps we should meet- somewhere on the way up.

Your Story Starts Here

Everyone is the hero of their own story.

We overcome obstacles.

We pursue a quest to reach our goals.

Maybe we rescue some princesses along the way- or maybe the princesses themselves are the goal.

For the story to work, every hero must have enemies to vanquish before he completes his quest- otherwise it’s a short and boring story.

“I went on a quest to climb a mountain so I just went ahead and climbed the mountain, it was okay, the end” isn’t interesting.

We need to hear about the preparation, the plotting, the failed attempts, lessons learned and fears overcome to finally stand on that mountaintop months or years later with the sun on your face and the life-affirming sense of achievement and elation coursing through your veins. That’s the most important part of the movie!

What is the core enemy we need to vanquish in our hectic, responsibility-laden lives?

For me- being sensually unfulfilled is my core enemy. Sensual fulfilment is the ultimate goal, and not because I’m shallow! I can make money, read books, be entertained at the tap of the button, eat, sleep, spend time with family and go pretty much wherever I want to very easily, but sensual fulfilment is trickier and more elusive.

That’s what makes it a quest!

My drives are generally pretty high- but not absolutely always. Sometimes I’m tired. I’m busy. I’m nervous. These things take time. You know this part of the story.

Secondary enemies include wasted time, wasted money, the danger of secrets being exposed, and the potential for embarrassment. Can you relate?

Is this an impasse?

What happens next in your story, or is this the end?

For the plot to work, the hero should finally meet the enemy head-on. In our story, where the enemy is a lack of sensual fulfilment, the friction peaks when the hero finally takes the leap and books a date with a companion.

Why?

This is the best choice for the hero in our story because not only does he beat the core enemy of lack of sensual fulfilment- he also beats the secondary enemies of wasted time and money (companions are a sure thing compared to Tinder et al), the danger of secrets being exposed (companions are less likely to get over-attached and make unexpected demands, and have a vested interest in maintaining a strict policy of professional confidentiality at all times) and embarrassment (companions are more likely to have social skills and be accepting of and experienced with different ages, body types and sexual preferences).

Phew!

But even that is too simple for the story to really be engaging! We need more drama than “hero feels sensually unfulfilled so he books a companion” for this to be a really great story.

Before vanquishing his enemies, the hero must overcome obstacles- otherwise it’s a boring story. Getting dropped off on the top of the mountain by luxury helicopter ride isn’t as exciting a story as climbing it.

What are the hero’s obstacles in our story?

Anxieties. In other words, fear.

Fear of the imagined dangers of climbing the mountain: of finally being open in his sexual expression, of investing money, of getting caught, and simply of the unknown.

In summary, our story so far is that the client (hero) overcomes his anxieties (obstacles) in order to complete his quest (experiencing sensual fulfilment).

I can certainly relate to this!

This is my personal, real-life version of the story, if you’re interested:

I have always been very highly sexed. After many years, I finally decided to be more open about it and to date the way I had always dreamed of- even though I wasn’t really sure that was possible. I could visualise how it would look. I had obstacles to overcome. I was afraid! Afraid that if I didn’t get married, I would end up regretting it- but all I really wanted to do with my life was have multiple lovers with whom I could share sensual excitement and fulfilment.

I found a way of doing that by confronting my anxieties and becoming a companion. It was a leap! I was surprised and elated to find that there are other people out there who feel the same way I do. My quest keeps unfolding as I meet more and more of them and now I can honestly say that not only was my goal achievable, it actually paled by comparison to how it feels to be doing it in real life. I look back and realise that following a conventional path would have been more risky to my happiness than taking that first leap into the unknown was.

You can start getting ready to make your dreams a reality by doing small, simple, easy things, like following your favourite providers on social media, learning about them on their websites and, reading their blogs, of course!

This is like the hero preparing his mighty steed, polishing his shining armour and getting ready to face down his enemy to reach the princess!

And when you feel ready as you’ll ever be to mount your horse and make the charge- the exciting part of the story begins. This is when you introduce yourself to her. I hope and believe that you will have the same experience I did- achieving your goal, and then some! My whole life improved when I embraced a lifestyle that was more authentic to who I am on the inside, and I truly want the same for you.

You can follow me on OnlyFans, X or Bluesky today, and when you are ready to begin your story- introduce yourself or arrange a phone call. See you on the mountaintop.

Lack of sexual intimacy in men: why it happens, why it matters and how to navigate it

Today I want to talk about lack of romantic sensual intimacy in the lives of otherwise successful men.

I’m not talking about people who just aren’t that interested in doing it, I’m talking about men who do want more! and just aren’t sure how to navigate that want.

But first of all, why does a lack of sensual intimacy matter and why can it be a problem?

Intimacy is important for your mental health

Intimacy and satisfaction are important components of mental health. Men who lack intimacy may experience feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. It can also lead to a decline in self-esteem and confidence, especially if they perceive their lack of activity as a reflection of their desirability or worth. It is not a reflection of your desirability or worth! Numerous factors contribute, from hormonal changes to busy working schedules. But sometimes it is hard not to let it knock your self-esteem if it’s been a long time. I’ve been there!

I once had a spell in my fashion/ media career where I was travelling across three continents on the reg with crazy hours, numerous “hats” to wear, events to attend, and an expectation that I look a certain way while I do it, which added to the pressure and filled the last few scraps of free time I had with Pilates, trying to squeeze in early nights and doing all my own beauty treatments either at 5am or after dinner because during salon opening hours I was always travelling, shooting, at a meeting, at an event etc etc etc.

Needless to say, my romantic life collapsed and even though I knew it was down to my schedule I did start to feel lonely and inadequate over time, especially the time I suddenly realised nearly three months had gone by with not only zero intimate contact with anyone else but also with myself! I wished I could schedule some hot intimate time- somewhere!- into my overflowing planner. I just didn’t have time for great encounters to occur naturally and organically. When was I supposed to find time to chill out in a bar and wait for attractive strangers to approach me?

It is important for physical health, including sleeping well and preventing diseases associated with old age

It’s not just mental health- sensual connection is important for physical health too and not getting any can be physically bad for us, especially as we get older. Sexual activity has been linked to numerous health benefits, including lower blood pressure, reduced risk of heart disease, improved immune function, and even better sleep. That’s right! If you’ve had trouble sleeping since things dried up, there could be a direct causal connection.

Studies from the Kinsey Institute in 2017 and the Journal of Sex Research in 2018 agreed that relationship satisfaction is positively associated with sexual satisfaction and frequency, which means if you are in a low-intimacy or no-intimacy relationship it could possibly lead to resentments or frustrations with your partner, eclipsing all the wonderful things you do share together.

Why is this happening to me?

I touched on this earlier but the reason otherwise successful men may struggle in this one area can actually be due to their success.

A study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family (2015) found that long work hours were associated with decreased relationship satisfaction and sexual frequency among both men and women. But of course long work hours are usually required in order to become successful in the first place, and a lack of career success or ambition might not be attractive to potential partners.

This is reflected in a survey conducted by the Institute for Family Studies and the Wheatley Institution (2018), which found that perceptions of masculinity and success can influence relationship dynamics, with some men feeling pressure to prioritise career over personal life. The National Bureau of Economic Research noted in a study in 2019 that higher-income individuals may face challenges related to work-life balance and relationship quality.

In short, the impact of work stress on our sex lives should not be underestimated. It can kill spontaneous desire, even when you are not working, so unless you are scheduling intimacy appointments the way you schedule everything else, time flies by and before you know it, it’s been weeks, months or in some cases years since simultaneous spontaneous desire arose between you and a lover. It can happen to anyone. It happens to a lot of people, and if you are one of them, it is probably not your fault. Society is set up to reward your ambition and hard work, encourage dedication to your career not just for yourself but for your partner and family, benefit from your economic stimulation and sweep under the rug the potential consequences to your equally important but much less taxable private life. It does not care if you become unwell or just plain unhappy.

What can we do to increase romantic sensual intimacy in our lives?

Schedule sensual time.

It is not realistic to quit our jobs as a way of decreasing stress and having more free time, so personal time needs to be managed alongside work. If you are someone who writes everything down in their planner, this will work for you!

You know in advance when it’s coming and are prepared for it when it arrives. The attendant excitement and anticipation followed by warm memories mean that one simple date can improve your mood and attitude for weeks or months.

If you are struggling physically to get things started after a long break, try taking a high quality zinc supplement before getting a prescription for the infamous “little blue pills”. The difference with zinc can be remarkable within only a month. I have even heard that oysters’ high zinc content is where their reputation as an aphrodisiac comes from! But for this purpose, a few oysters won’t do the job- get a good supplement such as Garden of Life Raw Zinc, take it every morning until the bottle runs out and see what happens. It can work wonders on men, if you know what I mean…

Schedule other kinds of intimacy, such as a counselling appointment or two just to chat and a solo spa day with a nice long full body massage to help put you back in touch with yourself.

I also like to dine solo in really nice restaurants as a treat sometimes. It feels good to do something sensual and romantic just for myself. Plus if you’ve been somewhere before and know where everything is and how it works, you’ll look super relaxed if you take a date there.

Lastly, take a higher approach and think about why you want to hook up with someone, how you want them to feel throughout and how you could make the experience enjoyable for them too. This really helps to avoid overthinking your own physical reactions by distracting your mind, letting your body do its thing. If you take the approach that it’s all about you, your experience will always be limited to a kind of assisted masturbation at best. There is so much more pleasure to be had by giving pleasure away, believe me. Pleasure is the gift that always gives back tenfold- especially in our secret little world.